We were at at Bradford Bridge club, and Derek was playing bridge upstairs when I was having coffee with friends below and friend said about the supercilious bridge player with his foot resting on his knee and she complained about a smug look on his face. The only time that Derek was ever disruptive was during a game of bridge. In this moment me and Derek shared a secret, that in 4 weeks time we were getting married and left the ladies shocked. The kindest, happiest, gentle, gentleman you would ever meet. I will always hold him dear in my head and my heart. Love you always Derek. Love Doreen.